I spent my twenties agonizing over why I felt so far behind in life. Never where I wanted to be at, never with people I wanted to be with, never doing things I wanted to do. I thought that first decade of adulthood was going to be pure bliss and joy. In reality, it was my own personal Hell with lots of plot twists and character development that I didn't necessarily ask for. As I enter my third decade, I look back at those trials and tribulations fondly. I still haven't figur